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4037th My thoughts about stuttering therapy method Arutiunian
conducted by Ewa Galewska
stuttering therapy Arutiunian method often causes strong emotions, and basically there is no surprising. Speech, human relations, social relations are generally very little in common with the cold calculation, or even common sense. Besides saying it also, and perhaps above all, emotions ... Can you imagine the love or even a friendship without talking, looking at each other's eyes, and generally spend time together? And if you can collaborate with someone to spend time in general with him / her not to talk? Możei can, but normal is probably not ...
In any case, the treatment of stuttering Arutiunian method is not only the treatment of north-northeast ynności speech, but also an attempt to 'fix' relationships with others and in general social relationships. Such attempts to "repair" is bound to provoke and cause various extreme emotions, both positive and negative. At the same time we realize that these "bury the human psyche," is associated with responsibility & # 261;, and the therapists who have the courage undertake such a difficult and probably also a risky task, require not only theoretical knowledge and vast experience, but also and perhaps above all, strictly comply with ethical and moral standards.
most statements on this website is of little value in my opinion, merits, and are very intense emotionally. However, in light of what I wrote in the introduction this seems understandable. I would try to look at the issue objectively and calmly, though I know that this is difficult and may fail to prevent & I # 261, C subjectivity and unnecessary emotions ...
This site and the relationship of many patients who, despite intense workouts during treatment method Arutiunian not cured s & # 281; of stuttering or cured "partially" shows clearly Zeo 100% efficacy is lacking. Why, then, the therapy we are assured that if we train solidly for sure the cure? I personally know people who have really practiced very solid, even more than was needed, and still continue to j & # 261; Kaja. So at the outset of therapy, we're just being lied to? And where ethical and moral standards, which I wrote in the introduction?
I have no doubt that leading a stuttering therapy method Arutiunian is a great idea for making money . However, it is worth noting, ZEW business there such a thing as reliable information about selling a product and insidious and deliberate concealment of hidden defects is simply used to ; over the offense. I am not a lawyer, and I simply can not assess if you can see any deception in therapy, or extort money for the purposes of the Criminal Code. However, it seems to me that not informing the patient about the possibility of recurrence of stuttering, despite the intense training exercise, is it just ; break the Commercial Law. In addition, there is still such a concept as fairness, which, unfortunately, in today's world has lost its meaning. However, it
also be note that the conduct of therapy can not be seen only as a commercial activity and sales their services. Treatment of stuttering is also after all treatment and any doctor called spaces. medical ethics. And if you can say that Mr Galewska behaves like a doctor?
Are initial consultations carried Sète even a cursory examination?
Whether the patient is truly informed about other methods of treatment?
Does the patient is reliably informed of any potential problems, difficulties and consequences of therapy?
Such questions can bet more, and the answer is no - "no." At the consultation is only presented the general concept of therapy, and if I accept it, you're going to STAY. Psychological research / Neurological that Sète required, are really a farce, one that does not work. At the same time worth noting that Mr. Stuttering Treatment Clinic Galewski can act very efficiently and accurately, unfortunately, g & # 322; words in situations when it comes to money.
Is it really any patient can be cured? So says Mr. Galewska, but the facts say otherwise. Anyone who went through therapy, she knows that the healing process is just very difficult. It is obvious that not everyone is so tenacious, robust and mandatory in order to complete the therapy. Why, then, for therapy Sète welcomed everyone like flies, even if you know in advance that they do not give advice to complete the healing process? The answer is simple, more patients, more money. And that someone does not finish the treatment? You can always make fun of, yell and argue with stubbornness maniac, that this is only and only his fault. But is it really so?
wonder whether, if the Stuttering Treatment Clinics zgłosiłby pretty healthy person, who never do not stutter or have accepted it, Mr Galewska for therapy? It is difficult to assess whether it is enough to deliberate and that is so unscrupulous that expose a healthy person for a three-year therapy, which It really does not need just to earn? It is worth checking these things, I wonder if such TVN would be interested in the issue? I do such provocations that come from the hidden camera journalist, and Mr. Galewska punishes him to go for therapy, because like a what? So great a specialist for what is considered to Mr. Galewska, certainly should be able to accurate diagnosis of whether someone is, what or not.
wonder if you ever happened to Mr. Galewski refuse adopt someone for therapy and to suggest to him any form of treatment? Does every patient who participates in this therapy, need such intensive care? It is, after many other treatments, why we are not informed about that? Of course, realizes that everyone has a reason and should itself be able to determine what treatments to choose. On the other hand, if we go to the doctor with a medical condition, whether we can determine for yourself how should we treat? After all, it's absurd! At the same time it is worth noting that if the doctor suggested to you that expensive, but unnecessary treatment in order to achieve Photos of financial benefits (such as money from pharmaceutical companies) simply breaks the law, and may suffer the consequences of prosecution.
why everyone is treated the same? Individual therapy is a farce, the turnusie can even be over 20 people in the group, and sometimes as many marathons patients that barely fit in the room. P. Galewska argues that the treatment must be in a group, because we must learn to talk to people .. However, in my opinion, specifying that Mr. Galewska leads group therapy is a significant abuse. In my opinion, leads Stuttering Treatment Clinic MEDICAL gregarious
equation is simple, two times more people, twice as much money. It is obvious that the more people, the worse the quality of treatment. But let's be serious, who cares?
why everyone goes the same treatment program? Is it really so, because the method is so great, or maybe it's just going to the sitter? Why work with each individual? It is better to spend a herd of patients into the hall, all to preach to do the same, less problems, cash more. And that someone will not come out therapy? Let's be serious, who cares?
Is it everything you have written, is proof that the therapy is bad? In my opinion, not necessarily. First, the method Arutiunian is one thing, keeping this method of therapy is another. There are different therapists ...
But if you can have any confidence in the therapist, the main and primary motivation is to earn cash between? Can I have
confidence in the therapist, who at the start of the treatment process insidiously withholds important information about their treatment?
should we allow the "poke in our minds," people who do not respect even the basic ethical and moral standards?
saddest thing in therapy led by Mr. Galewska is that people who take part in it, usually May to really trust it. The question of whether she deserves them?
know from eyewitness accounts, that some patients or their families sometimes take bank loans, or work two jobs, just to get paid ; for the therapies. The treatment process helps sometimes not only the immediate family but also friends, acquaintances, even teachers and professors at the university. Because the "true friend knows the misery" and altogether there is nothing surprising in this.
course, not everyone is lucky enough that it can count on at least minimal support from the environment during treatment. Some patients are lonely and lost people, to treat the viewer a chance for a better life, and of course, utterly believe in what he says Mr. Galewska . How vile must be a man to cheat on such a defenseless people? How much do you need to be unscrupulous, to fraudulently extract the last savings from the people who we implicitly ufajda?
course you can say, stupid, naive, himself guilty ... On the other hand, what's wrong is that someone , has problems with pronunciation, perhaps even to himself, and seeks help from a specialist? What's wrong with the fact that you are feeling lonely, lost and scared and looking for someone stronger, who will be for him not only support but also & # 380; may even model to follow and authority? What's wrong is that you implicitly trust your therapist? In my opinion, nothing. However, it seems to me that the insidious use of human weaknesses for property mockery of such feelings as nice & # 347, C, or friendship, the use of people's confidence just to earn, deserve not only to the particular condemnation, but also on the action which do not describe here because it would have been punishable in the understanding of the threat of the Criminal Code.
my opinion, the main objective of Stuttering Treatment Clinics in Warsaw, led by Mr. Galewska is making money. And basically there is nothing wrong with that. The problem is that patients are not accurately informed about the progress of both the therapy and about alternative forms of treatment.
It seems to me that the therapies can be recruited patients who do not indicate chances for cure yet they are introduced to the error, and simply deceived, that this is possible. In therapy, patients can be admitted who do not need quite as intense and costly forms of treatment. P. Galewska certainly does not behave like a doctor whose main goal is the good of the patient and the success of therapy. More street-wise it reminds me of the village bazaar, shop assistants, who wants to push all their eggs, carrots and dill, and even if eggs are rotten, or useless
Eve you were Galewski
2009-07-07 6:21:07 p.m.
4039. My thoughts on stuttering therapy method Arutiunian conducted by Ewa
Galewska - Part Two: emotional-psychological aspect
In my previous speech concentrated mainly on an objective assessment of therapy in view of Eve Galewski commercial law, business ethics, medical ethics and honesty and respect for the so-called. decency. Realizes, however, that Eve Galewska is for many people of authority, a pattern to follow, and who knows, perhaps even ideal I have a wife, girlfriend or mistress. For girls with such therapy may be the embodiment of friends, he never had, but about which he always dreamed of. Therefore, it seems to me that even if it has been proved an infringement, is still a lot of people broniłoby Galewski Eve, maybe even the partial , C patients who failed to complete therapy. It's hard to argue with emotions, but certainly worth considering why this is happening.
What is the whole phenomenon, or perhaps better said, the trick of this therapy and why so many people can fall for it?
try to carry out a brief analysis of the survey http://www.jakanie.pl/index.php?option=com_poll&task=results&id=32&Itemid=1
results of the survey show that over 60% of people taking part in therapy Galewski Eve, people dissatisfied with themselves and with their lives. Another 15% of those surveyed responded that "if it was not stuttering, would have a wife / girlfriend." You do not need to be a great expert in psychology to know that a single person, not only have no success with women, but even the inability picked up & # 263; any girls are generally just miserable. Based on the survey results can draw a simple conclusion that approximately 75% of patients Eve Galewski are people dissatisfied with themselves, with their & # 380; life, which probably do not have too many friends and sometimes even a girlfriend or wife. People who not only need support, but also perhaps even acceptance. These facts were confirmed also by my observations. Survey results show that only less than 20% of patients taking part in therapy for rational reasons,
10.4% said that if it was not stuttering, would work better, 7.7% believe that stuttering was for them an obstacle to completing the dream faculty.
course, aware that my analysis is very superficial, but my goal is just to show the problem, not a thorough analysis, or conducting research on the psychological profile of the overload & # 281; pilot supply of the patient.
my opinion, these data are corroborated by my observations, show clearly that in fact patients Eve Galewski not take udziałuw therapy only in order to learn a smooth talking. They come for therapy because they want to change themselves and their lives, which are simply unhappy. In a sense we can say that paying for treatments, buy a dream.
A whole scam of this therapy lies in the fact that from the very beginning of these lost people just lying to myself that it is possible. Now let us ask a simple Question: Can you be another man? In my opinion, probably not much. People, indeed change, but everything has its limits. You can change hair color, enlarge your breasts, or muscles at the gym, but whether it is in even possible that the change or even improve your character or personality?
Is responsible therapist in general will be such task?
Does the therapist should not be honest from the outset clear that the aspirations of the majority of patients are simply a pipe dream? And their dreams and life goals just unrealistic? Why is this not to discuss?
Because it sells badly ....
patients from the very beginning of the therapy are not only deprived of their naive illusions, but they are even more strengthened. How many times have we heard stories, as people will suddenly begin to have treatment success with beautiful women, they earn twice as much, and of course, they say ; more beautiful than the graduates of the school as an actor. And how does it achieve? Nothing difficult, just a regular pay and regular exercise, and success in life we \u200b\u200bhave almost guaranteed.
really do not have too much insight and intelligence to notice, that most of these stories are simply invented. And even if they are true, they are only individual cases. Anyone who undergoes therapy, knows well what are the effects of therapy in most osóbw second and third year.
How you met people who were really nice talking therapy? I know some who say smoothly, and does not jąkają, but I have not noticed that they said something exceptionally beautiful.
How many people with therapy changed my life?
How many people with treatment has become more happy people?
my opinion, these are individual cases, and most simply, and so on is stammer. I do not have access to statistical data, but I just somehow do not see the treatments for these happy successful people, who not only speak pi & # 281; beautifully, but with the therapy also changed his life. Moreover, even you do not see too many cured patients who speak quickly, without hand and without stuttering. Where are they? Why are you hiding? Will Daniel and Natalia say fun? Indeed jąkają not, at least you can not see, but if in spite of the fact that sitting in the clinic will & # 324; and night, they say, as they say, what is referred to other patients? Is it reasonable to assume that other patients are saying better than Natalie and Daniel? After all, they are in some ways the face of this therapy ....
Why, then calls us to such nonsense, which have nothing in common with the real reality? Why do patients simply lying? Why do we pressed ridiculous, untrue stories?
Based on this brief survey one answer is obvious. Most patients simply want to believe Mr. Galewski that she can change their lives, and the s & # 261; willing to pay for it. Pay for the unrealistic dreams that never come true. And Mr. Galewski dishonesty lies in the fact that their naive illusions pacjentóww even reinforces, though she knows perfectly well that nothing will not.
my opinion, there is nothing wrong in helping other human beings such as overcoming shyness, or the public occurred prior to drug granted before, etc. There is nothing wrong with the patient's inspiration to do something, what previously would have never dared. However, the patient's motivation to work, encouraged him to add, enhance self-confidence has nothing to do with the fraudulent use of human weakness for the property.
my opinion, the activities of Stuttering Treatment Clinic in Warsaw is based primarily on the use of human naive, perhaps even infantile and unrealistic dreams and aspirations in life patients. At the beginning of therapy may indeed seem that we bought a prescription for a happy life without stuttering, perhaps even a recipe for success in life or a dream come true ... But as time has shown, & # 380; that in most cases it is only an illusion.
It basically has all my Thoughts on the Eve Galewski therapy. Made every effort to describe the problem thoroughly, fairly, objectively and from a distance. I hope that my speech will help other people more accurately select the appropriate method of treatment and therapist.
Eve you were Galewski
2009-07-08 3:05:25 p.m.
4046th My thoughts on stuttering therapy method Arutiunian
conducted by Ewa Galewska - part three: Hazards and dangers lurking on the patient
Remembrance there very carefully my first day of therapy, I remember very accurately the other patient. One boy sat before the camera, he starts talking, he says quite a long time, and in general the no, what. In the end, probably after 15 minutes of conversation before the camera, he sometimes uses one block. The second camera sits before you, he's been, what is more, but also in all too much. At the same time speaks so loudly, rapidly and with conviction, that even begin to listen to him, thinking in the spirit of "ooo, hit a guy." In contrast, next to me the guy sitting in a chair, which best fits the term "living delay ". Empty eyes, unnatural body position, a strange, wheezing. He sits before the camera and can not say even one word ...
other patients in the way of anything in particular not to stand, sit & # 261; before the camera, they say, and the jąkają ....
Each of us went to the treatments for the same purpose, to recover from stuttering. Probably Most of us also had other hidden objectives that I described in Part Two of my relationship Eve Galewski of therapy. On the other hand, it is clear that each of us has a different character, different personality, different levels of assertiveness, another level of timid ; bones. Some of us can be found in the company of others already in talks with the very idea of \u200b\u200bbeauty a girl with voluptuous shapes fine tunes attack diarrhea. In extreme situations, a colleague described as "living corpse", we are completely excluded from life and not able to function independently .
was once a joke, as the Russians have invented a wonderful, versatile and extremely effective shaver for men men. Enough to face applied to the device and it will automatically goliło us.
But a skeptical customer asks to Purchase: Please, sir, but then everyone has a different face?
A Russian trader corresponds with a broad smile, but only to the first shaving ....
In light therapy method Arutiunian this brief piece takes on new meaning. All are treated equally, we all have to do the same exercises, but this fact does not in itself constitute a threat. The problem is that, at least in the implementation of Eve Galewski, the therapy method Arutiunian is very deep interference in our personality and, in extreme cases may indicate an attempt to do with us, another member man.
I realize that our way of tingling or behavior is not synonymous with the character or personality. However, through gestures, facial expressions, body language very often express themselves, their emotions and feelings. Already at the beginning of therapy, this possibility we received, we can say that we are actually strips of our "emotional skin." However, in light of what I described in the last column, it seems to me understandable why the majority of patients agrees to such operations. Most patients Eve Galewski just uncomfortable with themselves, and the reason and the main problem is not necessarily be stuttering in itself. It seems to me that most patients Eve Galewski have difficulty finding themselves and their place in the world.
But ask yourself: Is it really solves the problem of therapy?
What manner of men we get through therapy?
on therapy, we learn that free speech is necessary to recover from stuttering, treat it as a transitional period, "bitter medicine to speak lovingly. " However, in my opinion, free speech is not to only treat us with stuttering. Based on my observation of therapy Galewski Eve, it seems to me that this is the first step to do with us other people.
I realize that my hypothesis is risky, it may even seem absurd, but first, please read what I have to say that my hypotheses & # 281; defend. Each
We are all different, so we differ from each other in many respects. However, we are introduced at the same pattern of free speech in hand. In a sense, remember the soldiers who have the same uniforms. Before therapy, each of us was another man, now we are practically the same. Look and act like disabled persons, and even if it will accelerate our speech, we speak as persons with impaired speaking quickly. And so we are also treated by strangers in the store, on the street, at the station or at school. At the beginning it is even funny and entertaining, with time begins to do the annoying. In addition, at baseline, for sure people are buying into the role of "poor patient who needs to speak slowly, over which all the pity ;, help him, and generally treat special deference. It should be noted, however, strabismus month to month, losing their old habits, behavior, talk to different people. At the same time it is worth noting that not all our habits have been associated with stuttering.
first change in his personality, I started to notice about the third month, and every next month ; cement were getting bigger. Unfortunately, not all positive changes in Sète. Certainly, most pacjentóww therapy becomes more peaceful, calm, less vulnerable to criticism. We are probably also more courageous, doing speeches, interviews, ask people on the street. Therapy definitely increases our motivation to work and inspire the various operations, which previously we would not decided.
the other hand, the whole duration of therapy we are forced to blindly obey and execute the commands, even if they do not understand or recognize as g & # 322; stupid and pointless. We can have your opinion, but only if the sentence is the same therapist. Any criticism or doubt arouse anger and outrage Eve Galewski. Besides, what ever I did not like, constantly repeated in therapy, what kind we are vulnerable, shy and gentle, and our caregivers should take care of us as young children.
Is it really all patients have such personality traits?
Is it really all patients have such traits as infantilism or naivete? Why
treated us like retarded idiots who can not even own a tie shoes? Worst
in all this is that the "who's who stops, so it gets." In therapy, which is expected should develop our personality, can, in my opinion, dote, they became fools & # 263;, and maybe even go back a little bit of emotional development.
Another element of the therapy, which I think is just dangerous, it is a social isolation. At the beginning seems like a logical and understandable in the first stage of treatment we should focus primarily on exercises, so falezy limited social life. OK., A total of seemingly makes sense.
Besides social isolation occurs automatically, just really good friends, friends, immediate family abolish the long run ; such free talk. A month to month moves away from us more and more people ... The most pessimistic scenario we are quite alone ...
How many of you have concluded new friends in the first year of therapy?
How many new people you meet?
And how many friends you just lost your? It was worth it?
course, exactly as we go to questions, trailed strangers, but who generally treat us like idiots, at best, a handicapped person. What's more, Ewa Galewska constantly repeated, as other people do not understand us, and in general are bad, niedobrzy, little sensitive, etc. The subtext, of course, she only understands us, and everything is great, wonderful and fantastic ...
In light of what I write & # 322; em, it is not difficult to imagine how the patient is cut after one year of therapy. It looks bad, presents a picture of misery and despair. Torn from his "emotional skin, devoid of habit patterns that do not always have something in common with stuttering, subjected to increasing social isolation, doting, fooled, threatened, and usually completely dominated by the therapist. The only good point is that no one in general does not stutter. But the consolation is a flimsy ..
On the other hand, such as a colleague, which I define as a "living corpse", actually made progress. Previously, only sat and gasped, now going on, and even says, and is trying to gesticulate somehow awkwardly.
How many people after the first year of therapy feel better?
How many people are satisfied with the results of therapy?
Is it meant to look like?
worth noting that the treatment lasts for three years, and only the second year before Eve Galewska opens room to maneuver. He begins to teach us how we behave in different situations, how to talk to people or even how to pick up girls. In fact, I would not mind, we always learn new things, but the level of education is simply miserable and have nothing in common with stuttering. Why
like talking to someone, I always stand on two legs?
Why I can not stand on one, on my toes or bend at the knee?
Why should I be looking girl in the eye, and not, say, look a little lower, To check whether it has nice breasts?
Why do you have to have still the zajeb slit, which makes it look like I'm constantly hunting for flies?
Why all this? What does this have to do with stuttering? I realize that body language is important, but there are some limits. In addition, the therapy did not learn to use, or use body language, but we are just introduced at a diagram of speech and behavior. This scheme would describe as "polite, well mannered boy who always listens to mommy."
Why forbids us to produce a anger and aggression?
Why do not we are taught how to cope in life, which unfortunately is not a fairy tale?
Why is constantly forcing us to obedience and humility?
why everything is based of a schema about how someone can break it is punished for it?
Who ever gave the right to Eve Galewski right to evaluate the behavior?
to decide what we want to be human?
I realize that some patients actually need the teacher who will tell them exactly how to hold the leg siedzącw cafes, bookstores and as stojącw how to look for a girlfriend and as a boy how to behave on the street when it rains and rains and the sun shines. It may be true, some patients need such advice ... But perhaps not all ...
But the worst part is, strabismus month to month & # 261 c is steadily losing each other. We change, that's for sure, but who are we? Better? Smarter? More mature?
my opinion, more and more strange ... From day to day from month to month gonna lose their former personality traits, and we become more and more monster, a creation of Eve Galewski, which ra tries to shape us according to their patterns, some, whore, cyborg, which requirements of people on the street, not speaking, and still stupid laughs, that they escape. Sure, as viewers flee an idiot ... And there is nothing surprising in this.
never liked it, as other patients said about Natalia and Daniel "trained monkey." But as I began to wonder about therapy, I conclude that this offensive term is true. I also wonder whether I have patients, we were not in therapy chained to a lesser or greater extent, some bizarre, wytrenowanymi potworkami, Eve, shaped at will Galewski ...
So I made a while back decisions, which was still a difficult decision. I end up with a therapy, although I'm not cured of stuttering. I conclude not to go crazy, and that also, and perhaps above all, do not lose yourself to
Crop & # 263; each other and from time to time to stutter, than I do with myself for some strange creature, which is hardly a man
We are all humans, although it is difficult to resist & # 263; the impression that Eve Galewska sometimes forget this.
Eve you were Galewski
2009-07-09 8:52:14 p.m.
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